You wish that you did not think about him so much, but you cannot help the fact that you do. He’s your exright now, but deep down inside you want to be able to make him become your current boyfriend again. Through all of the ups and the downs, you have to admit that he really was a good guy and that maybe things ended a little too soon. That happens way too often today, and most people just seem to accept it as the way that it is. What if it did not have to be that way, though? What if could end up making him want to come back to You?
Here’s how to get your boyfriend back and make him want to reconcile with you:
1. If he is going to come back to you, you have to make it seem like it is happening on his terms.
Guys can be kind of stubborn, especially in the context of dating and relationships, and if you are going to win him back, then he needs to feel like he is the one making the decision. The funny thing is, there are things that you can do to guide him in the right direction, but he will still assume that it was his idea to get back together with You.
2. You have to entice him to come back to you by being a little seductive with him.
One of the easiest ways to get an exthinking about you again is to deliberately entice him by being a little on the seductive side. You don’t want to go too far with this, because he has to want you without getting what he wants to feel like coming back. Still, the more seductive that you can be around your ex boyfriend, the more likely it is that he WILL be thinking about you.
3. He needs to feel that there is a real possibility that some other guy may end up with you.
Sometimes using jealousy as a way to get him to think about getting back together can actually be pretty effective. If your ex boyfriend is feeling like you are always going to be around, then there really is no sense of urgency for him to want to come back to you as soon as possible. Hint around at the fact that you are not always going to be around and he just may come back.
Don’t assume that it has to be over. If you still love your ex boyfriend and you want to not just get him back, but also make him commit to you, it can be done. However, if you assume the worst and don’t try anything to get him back, then nothing will happen, will it? Getting back with an ex boyfriend does not have to be so hard, not when you know what he really wants and how to make him see that YOU are the ONE for him!